The importance of having a will
Let’s get one thing out of the way first: No one likes talking, much less thinking, about making a will. We get it. Thinking about dying isn’t exactly the kind of festive activity you had in mind when baking pumpkin pies and planning a Christmas shopping list with your family. But we’d like to suggest a change of perspective: Instead of thinking of wills as something morbid and depressing, think of it as an opportunity to truly ensure your loved ones’ wellbeing, no matter what happens. Not only does this provide an incredible feeling of peace and serenity to you and your family, it also ensures that your wishes will be respected even when you can no longer express them yourself.
Perhaps you’re thinking that there’s still plenty of time to write a will, and that you’re young and wills are something that older people need to think about. Or perhaps you think that you don’t own anything of great value, and don’t have a massive fortune to leave behind, so what’s the point?
The thing about life is that it’s unpredictable, and while we always hope for the best we should also be prepared for the worst. That’s why we always say that the best time to write a will was yesterday, and the second-best time is right now. Because taking care of this task, as unpleasant and dreary as it seems, will leave you feeling confident that you’ve taken control of what happens to your belongings and your loved ones after you’re no longer there.
Here’s what happens when you die without a will: You’re considered to have died intestate, and your belongings are split up according to very specific inheritance laws. You get no say in what happens to your things. If you have a pet, there may not be a caretaker for it and it might end up in a shelter. If you wanted to donate money to charity or leave your book collection to your best friend, you’re out of luck. If you wanted a special poem or song to be performed at your funeral but don’t have a will, there’s no guarantee that wish will be respected. That’s why it doesn’t matter how big or small your estate is: You still want to keep control over what happens after you pass.
A will is such a gift to yourself and your loved ones: You and your family can rest easy knowing that you’re covered and protected, no matter what happens. If you ask us, that’s something to celebrate.